← Back to stories
The most unexpected gift I received on my trip

The most unexpected gift I received on my trip

Before my trip to Vietnam, I imagined everything like this: the bustling streets of Hanoi, fragrant coffee with condensed milk, green rice fields, boats among limestone cliffs and small markets where you can buy half the country if you don't remember in time that the suitcase has a weight limit. I made a list of places I wanted to see in advance, saved several routes on my phone, and even read about local customs so that I wouldn't accidentally commit some cultural feat like trying to enter a temple in unsuitable shoes. It seemed to me that I was well prepared for the trip, although, as it turned out later, no guidebooks are able to prepare a person for the moment when an ordinary evening suddenly becomes one of the warmest memories in life.

I came to Vietnam alone, and at first this thought seemed extremely romantic to me. No one needed to explain why I wanted to spend two hours in the same market, photographing old signs, or why I suddenly wanted to turn into an alley that promised neither beautiful views nor famous landmarks. I could change my plans, have breakfast when I woke up, and walk until my legs began to cautiously hint that a vacation was not a competition in the number of kilometers traveled. However, in the early days it became clear that independent travel has one small drawback: if you get lost, no one can convincingly say that it was you who insisted on this turn, and then look for the way back with you.

I came for new experiences, beautiful photos and stories to tell at home, but I did not expect that the most valuable memory would not be a landmark or even an amazing landscape. It happened in the small Vietnamese city of Hoi An, where old houses are painted in warm shades of yellow, balconies hang over narrow streets, and colorful lanterns are lit in the evening. It was here that I received a gift, which at first seemed to me just a nice gesture from a stranger, and later turned into a story that I remember whenever I want to believe in small miracles again.

Hoi An, where even the evening seems like a legend

I arrived in Hoi An in the late afternoon, when the heat of the day was gradually receding, and the streets were beginning to fill with people. The city looked as if someone had decided to put together antique Chinese lanterns, Vietnamese houses, French colonial facades and the smell of freshly cooked food in one place, and then generously add a little magic for those who are not in too much of a hurry. I walked along the Thubon River, stopped by souvenir shops and tried to take pictures so that flashlights, water and at least one person who wasn't looking directly into the lens were in the frame at the same time. After several unsuccessful attempts, I realized that my idea of a dream photo was somewhat different from passersby's idea of free movement on the street, so I put my phone away and decided to just enjoy the evening.

Hoi An is especially beautiful after sunset, when reflections of colorful lights appear over the river, and the old town gradually turns into a setting for a story about distant lands and lost treasures. It is easy to imagine how many centuries ago merchants arrived by water with goods from other parts of Asia, and in the narrow alleys there were people who spoke different languages and brought their own traditions with them. I read that historical Hoi An was an important trading port through which international trade links passed, and walking through its streets, I couldn't help but imagine what it was like before the advent of tourist cafes and souvenir shops. However, my historical reflections were regularly interrupted by quite modern questions: where to buy water, isn't it time for dinner, and why I found myself again near a shop with beautiful things, even though I promised myself not to buy anything.

In a small square, I stopped by a woman who was selling handmade silk lanterns. They hung over the counter in rows, shimmering in shades of red, gold, and green, and swaying gently in the evening wind. The woman smiled at me and motioned for me to examine the product, and I, as a person who knows how to enter a store solely to look, held a flashlight in my hands a minute later and tried to decide where I was going to put it at home. I asked the price, listened carefully to the answer, and thought sadly that my suitcase would soon run out of space not for clothes, but for all the things that seemed beautiful to me precisely because I was far from home.

The Legend of lanterns and little Happiness

While I was examining the lanterns, the woman noticed my interest and began to talk about the tradition of lighting them in Hoi An. Of course, we communicated in a mixture of English words, gestures, and smiles, so I can't say that I understood every phrase perfectly correctly, but I remember the meaning of the conversation. Vietnamese lanterns are often associated with wishes of happiness, well-being and good luck, and in Hoi An they have become one of the symbols of the city, especially during the monthly lantern festival, when the electric lighting in the historic center partially gives way to the soft glow of traditional lights. I listened to her and looked at the colorful lanterns, imagining how people lit them in their homes many years ago, hoping for peace, prosperity and the well-being of the family.

Озеро Хоанкьем

At that moment, I remembered another famous legend of Vietnam – the story of the magic sword of Emperor Le Loy. According to legend, in the 15th century, the heavenly forces helped the future ruler to obtain a sword, with which he led the fight against Chinese rule. After the victory, the emperor went to the lake, where a huge golden turtle took the sword and carried it into the depths, returning the heavenly gift to its owners. This legend is associated with the name of Hoan Kiem Lake in Hanoi, which is often translated as "Lake of the Returned Sword." Of course, I couldn't know what exactly the woman at the counter was thinking when she told me about flashlights, but I liked to imagine that in this country old stories still live alongside everyday life, and people pass them on to each other not only in books, but also during ordinary conversations.

I asked the woman if flashlights could really bring good luck, and she laughed, as if I had asked a very serious question about something that should primarily please the eye. Then she explained that the most important thing for her is the good wishes that people associate with such gifts. Maybe I didn't understand every word, but the smile and gestures were more eloquent than long explanations. I was about to buy a small flashlight when the woman suddenly shook her head, selected one of the smallest ones from the counter and handed it to me.

At first, I didn't even understand what was going on, and I decided that she wanted to show me another model. But the woman put the flashlight in my hands, smiled and made it clear with a gesture that it was a gift. I started to refuse because I was embarrassed to accept a thing from a man who earns money by selling his own products, but she gently insisted. We talked a little more, as much as our tongues would allow, and then I thanked her and walked away from the counter, still not fully believing that a strange woman had just given me a beautiful thing for nothing.

The most unexpected gift turned out to be very small

The flashlight was made of thin silk stretched over a lightweight frame, and it fit in my palms. It didn't look expensive or luxurious, and its color wasn't particularly rare, but there was something surprisingly warm and real about it. I carefully put the gift in my bag, checked several times for creases in the fabric, and continued walking, although my thoughts kept returning to the woman at the counter. It was unusual for me to receive something from a person I had met just a few minutes ago, and it was even more unusual for me to realize that I didn't need to give anything in return except gratitude.

Вид на озеро Хоанкьем

In the evening, I sat down in a small cafe near the river, ordered Vietnamese coffee with condensed milk and took out a flashlight to examine it again. The coffee turned out to be so strong that after the first sip, I wondered for a moment if I really wanted to have a quiet evening or if I accidentally ordered a drink for someone who has to raise a small bridge tomorrow. I added some ice, stirred the coffee and began to watch the people on the embankment, and my gift lay on the table next to it. There was a lot of talking, boats moving slowly through the water, vendors offering souvenirs to tourists, and I sat there feeling unusually calm, as if this little flashlight had helped me stop hurrying for a few minutes.

I often bought souvenirs while traveling and brought home magnets, postcards, ceramic cups and things that seemed important to me at the time of purchase. But this flashlight was different from everything I had brought before, because I hadn't chosen it myself and hadn't planned to include it in my luggage. He appeared in my life quite unexpectedly, thanks to the kindness of a stranger, and that's why he became special to me. I suddenly realized that a gift is valuable not only for its value or beauty, but also for the story behind it, and sometimes a few minutes of human involvement are more memorable than a whole day scheduled along a tourist route.

The legend of the turtle and another miracle story

The next day, I decided to visit one of the places associated with the legends of Vietnam, and again I remembered the story of the golden turtle who took the magic sword from Emperor Le Loy. I couldn't see Hoan Kiem Lake in Hoi An itself, because it's located in Hanoi, but the legend interested me so much that I started reading more about it at the hotel. I liked that in this story, not only the magic sword that helped to win the victory is important, but also the moment when it had to be returned: a wonderful gift does not necessarily have to belong to a person forever in order to fulfill its purpose. Of course, this is just a legend, not historical proof of the existence of a magical weapon or a golden turtle, but it is such stories that help to feel how closely history, folk memory and everyday life are intertwined in Vietnam.

Чучело черепахи в витрине в Храме Нефритовой горы

A stuffed turtle in a showcase at the Jade Mountain Temple

I was thinking that gifts can also be like little legends. One person gives another a thing, sometimes quite by accident, and years later this object reminds not so much of the object itself as of the time, place and feelings that accompanied the meeting. I had enough things at home that cost more than my flashlight, but none of them could tell the story of Hoi An's evening promenade, a woman who didn't know my name, and a conversation in which a smile was more important than words. I wanted to keep this story not only in my memory, but also in the item itself, so I decided not to hide the gift in a suitcase among other souvenirs, but to bring it home in my carry-on.

Храм Нефритовой горы

Jade Mountain Temple

That evening, I took another walk through the old town, paused by the river and watched the lanterns reflected on the water. I remembered going to the Jade Mountain Temple and admiring the stuffed turtle. I didn't buy another souvenir, although several times I found myself wanting to find something similar to put next to the gift. Then I laughed at my own habit of turning any beautiful impression into an excuse to buy and went on, enjoying the walk. Sometimes it seems to me that traveling teaches us not so much to pack our things as to notice things that cannot be packed in a suitcase: someone else's smile, unexpected kindness, the aroma of an unfamiliar dish, or the feeling that for a few minutes you were not just a tourist in a strange country, but a guest.

What I brought home from Vietnam

When the trip came to an end, I carefully wrapped the flashlight in soft clothes so that it wouldn't get wrinkled on the way, and checked several times to make sure I hadn't left it in the room. From the outside, it probably looked a little funny, because I treated a small thing as if I were transporting a fragile museum piece, although in fact I was most afraid of losing the memory that was associated with it. At home, I found a place for the flashlight near the bookshelf, where it reminds me of Vietnam and that evening in Hoi An. Sometimes I turn on a small lamp next to it, look at its soft colors and mentally return to the embankment, where boats were rustling, there was a smell of food and an unknown woman gave me a piece of her world.

Now, when people ask me what souvenir I brought from Vietnam, I tell them about this particular flashlight. I could list the beautiful places I've seen, the dishes I've tasted, and the routes I've walked, but most of the time I think of a story about an unexpected gift. She reminds me that even in an unfamiliar country, where you don't always understand the language and don't know the local customs, you can meet someone who wants to share something good with you just because they want to. And even though I will never know the whole story of that woman and will not be able to say exactly why she decided to give me a flashlight, I am pleased to think that that evening I received not only a souvenir, but also a small lesson in kindness.

Perhaps that's why I still consider that flashlight to be the most unexpected gift of my life. It wasn't expensive, it wasn't pre-selected, and it had nothing to do with the holiday, but it appeared at a time when I didn't expect anything special at all. I came to Vietnam for impressions, and I left with something that brings me back to one simple thought every time: sometimes the most valuable gifts come from people we meet for just a few minutes, and the most beautiful legends are born where we are ready to see a little magic in an ordinary day.

 

0

Comments